Fellas, you have finally landed the woman of your "dreams" and she is all that and a bag of salt 'n' vinegar chips. First couple of months you want to dazzle and woo her in ways you THINK she has never been before. You are so into her that when the fellas invite you out for a "Boys Nite Out", you flake out at the last minute because your new squeeze needs you to come with her to Bed, Bath, and Beyond to look at some new drapes and towels for her bathroom.
Is this acceptable behavior for a man to cancel out on his homeboys for his woman?
Does it make a difference what stage the man and woman are at in their relationship, i.e. girlfriend, Fiance, Wife?
Is it okay for the homeboys to dog him out for said "weak" and "punk" behavior?