Monday, November 28, 2011

Special Turkey Edition - Top 12 Reasons Why Good Men Are Single

I hope you all had a Happy Thanksgiving and since your belly's are stuffed with turkey and ham, I decided to go ahead and start some trouble today!!!  I found an article that listed the "Top 12 Reasons Why Good Black Men Are Single" but I decided to take out "Black" because I believe this issue is really colorless at this point and these reasons apply to all.  Read, Enjoy, and of course comment!!!!


1. They keep meeting women with unrealistic expectations for what they want in a man.
2. They keep meeting women who put them in the wrong category by writing them off too quickly as not being "their type".
3. They're not wanted because they're not needed. Too many women have told them that they don't "need" a man.
4. They keep meeting women who don't respect them just because they "are" men.
5. They keep failing women's Girlfriend Approval Test. If the woman's friends don't like them, then that woman won't give them a chance either.
6. They keep meeting women who are not interested in them, but only in how much money they make.
7. They're nobody until somebody else loves them. Not enough women see them as a prize unless they see a lot of other women chasing after them first.
8. They meet too many women who don't really know what they want.
9. They meet too many women who believe that single, good men are "too good to be true".
10. The RIGHT man at the WRONG time.

11. They meet too many women who don't recognize a good man when they see one.
12. They don't promote all the great things about themselves boldly or consistently enough to enough women

2 comments:

  1. This could be said about single women too! The good women who would love to have a partner are often passed up as well because they don't fit some archetype. Look to the heart and all will fall into place- judge a man or woman on the inner workings of his/her character.

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  2. So I think it also depends on the definition of a "good" man or woman? Just because you are "good" doesn't meant that you are perfect and/or ready to be in a relationship. I must say I thought all of these reasons were outwardly focused with no thought or consideration for some internal soul searching. Karma… what are you putting out in order to attract these types of people?

    I consider myself a "good" women, because I know what it takes to be in a healthy relationship. I know the principles of communication, quality time, & unconditional love… HOWEVER, it doesn’t mean that I share these principles with everyone that I date. Figurative speaking, just because I’m a woman doesn’t mean I’m ready to be a mother right now. With that being said…
    13. Deep down inside they want to be single and they are not fully prepared to love again.
    14. Timing is everything… Its just not the right moment in time.

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