Can She Spend the Night?

So, you meet a young lady and you start dating.  First date is usually the boring "get to know you" and ask a million and one stupid questions like "where are you from?" and "where did you go to school" blah blah blah.  If the man can make it through the first date, which can be relatively easy if he just shuts his mouth and allows her to do all the talking, there will be a second date. 

Second date occurs and now you are just capitalizing off of the first date.  It is a little more interesting this time around, you are both somewhat comfortable and the guard comes down a little. At the end of this date though, a possible liplock is in store, maybe not!!!

Now the third date is here and this is where it gets interesting.

*****Disclaimer, the events being explained right now are not the reflection of what is SUPPOSED to happen, they are just pretend dates to help me get to my point*****

On the third date, she has had a long week and for some reason, she is feeling "hot!" She is looking to let her hair down and get loose and it looks like you are on the menu BIG BOY!!!!  All you have to do is show her a good time and she is all yours.

The third date is a success; you take her home, your apartment, and for the rest of the night the HORIZONTAL TANGO is in full effect!  Now hopefully you were not a disappointment and you lasted at least a good solid five minutes!!!  After you are done, the big question is:

DOES SHE SPEND THE NIGHT OR DOES SHE GO HOME?

What is the rule here?  I have heard arguments on both sides of the coin.  As a gentleman, I just do not feel right sending a lady home in the middle of the night.  So I will allow her to stay until the morning.  Does that send off the wrong signals? 

Does spending the night represent a "relationship" which would be moving too fast if you are only dating?

How do you "kick" your date out if you do not want her to spend the night? 

Inquiring minds want to know....

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