Fellas, your best friend or even a close homeboy has a wife or wifey (almost wife but no ring) that is real cool. She gets along with everyone; she also has a reputation to being somewhat flirty. Some say she is real friendly. One day you bump into her at the grocery store and the both of you speak, as usual, but this conversation takes on a little twist. You tell her about your dating issues and she proceeds to tell you "how great of a guy you are" and that a woman "would be crazy to pass up a great-looking guy like you." She then touches your arm in a flirty type of way.
Now you dont want to believe it because this is your friend's wifey but you are pretty sure she just flirted with you.
Do you tell your homeboy that his girl is flirting with you?
On the flipside, do you believe your homeboy if he tells you that your girlfriend is flirting with him?
SPEAK OUT!!!
Some females are just friendly, and very caring or are very touchy friendly. For one I would say that I am one to give a friend male or female that I l genuinely care for a hug on a bad day or a touch on the arm, to let them know hey I see you pain or your joy and I share it. One might see it as flirty which I have gotten over years and I still get. But sad thing is I am so not flirting. I am just an emotional person. It either I car enough to feel for you or I hate you enough to not want to see you, talk to you or be talked to by you. And I am sure there are females like that who genuinely just care. If you would like to save yourself from looking like a fool keep your thoughts to yourself, or just stay clear of the girl if you feel uncomfortable. Cause more than likely her man knows what type of females she is, and is not sweating it or is learning to adjust to it, but no matter what knows her intentions.
ReplyDeleteOn the flip side if indeed she is indeed flirting well still keep it to yourself. Cause some people don’t take too kindly to you “looking out” for them. And will misconstrue your intensions and see it as an insult to their girl/man what have you not. So no either case don’t do it. And if a girl treats her female friends as she does her male friends it doesn’t mean she is bi-sexual either it just means that YES PEOPLE CAN BE THAT NICE.
i personally would call her on it directly. maybe say saying are you flirting with me in a fun jokey way. this can be uncomfortable, i know 1st hand but she may not be aware that she's doing it. or maybe she does and she needs to be called on it....he could also say to her in a joking way, "im gonna have to tell (insert guys name here) that his woman is flirting with me"
ReplyDeletegotta say something asap....if he a true homie he trusts you....if not the lost friendship is a blessing regardless....
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